Struggle to decide

Often times we people suffering from anxiety or depression or due to some other issue can’t decide. Simple tasks that might be a no-brainer for someone else, takes hours or sometimes days for us to decide. Tasks such as deciding what to eat or what to wear ,to go out or stay in, whether to ask for a leave from the boss or not, whether to text or call,whether to buy the groceries today or tomorrow and the list goes on.These day to day decisions that can be taken in a blink of an eye for some people puts us in a jeopardy. It is not that we are indecisive by nature not also ‘ki nakhre bohot he’ (too much attitude) but rather it is mostly that we sought to be perfectionist and want each and every effort to be right (and never wrong) or maybe that we worry too much about what would happen so we analyze (over-analyze) ,add pros and cons, calculate (never ending) and then maybe come on to a perfect decisions that is the least harmful or so we thought for the heavenly minute cause after that we again are back to deciding on some other small thing and process begins again. To save ourselves from this overthinking dilemmas, most of the times we just resort to not decide anything. We delay it till it becomes either redundant or are left with no other choice or we just leave it on the cards of destiny. Should I ask my boss for my leave ? ;And after 7 days of perusal lets it go and be like “I will go home in the next holidays”. Should I buy pink or blue? ;And then decides to leave the decison for when the ocean will meet the skies i.e never(bhaiya side kar do main kal Aake dekhungi abhi time nahi hai) Should I order in or eat out and after 2 hours of food apps search cooks Maggi(noodles) and goes to sleep. I get it, we all get this mind numbing dilemmas and decisions. We need some time and some push to move forward but this does not mean that we are incapable of making a decision. Even during the hardest, the most difficult times we make it through, cause we all need a push, a helping hand, an inspiration from time to time to win the fight from within, to win our peace back, to be able to love ourselves again. So be patient around us, be encouraging, be fragile too cause we can support you too and above all just be understanding. #spreadlove #holdthehand